Saturday, July 9, 2011

If you have been in a car wreck before, please answer?

I was involved in a pretty bad wreck last week. A car pulled out in front of me and my husband and we slammed into them. We were taken to the hospital by ambulance, but thankfully no major injuries. We are just bruised up with some whiplash going on. So far we are handling everything on our own. My question is..........do we need to get a lawyer? We don't plan on suing or being dirty, but I do feel like we are due some for pain and suffering. Not to mention our now totaled vehicle! I would rather do this without an attorney's help, but I need to hear your suggestions as to why or why not, if I need legal assistance. Thank-you.

Is Irish Dancing Dangerous?

Not at all! Ive been dancing for 9 years, and never seriously injured myself. Yes, Ive had bruises, and gone to PT for ankle strength. But, its not dangerous at all! Its so much fun, and definitely worth it.

Why do guys looove having eye contact with me ?

i dont get it, all my friends are guys and usually when im looking around, one of them is bound to STARE at me ,in the eyes too.i jst smile and i look away before i see their reaction. why do guys do this ? i haate it !

Lost him to another girl......:(. please take time to read and help?? Thanks(: xoxox?

I would be the sweet, innocent girl who doesn't and I repeat doesn't say the flirty stuff... I think he will miss it. I wouldn't text him for about a week either.. see what he is really missing. :) I think u will win.. Why not try?

Does it sound like an anxiety disroder or depression? or both?

I'm only 17 years old. My father passed away when i was 13, and my mother passed away just 6 months ago along with my stepdad. My father was very Ill... My mother & stepdad died in a motorcycle crash. He died instantly... While I had to watch my mother suffer everyday in a coma for an entire month...I feel like i can still see her suffering in my mind... I feel like I should've kept her on the feeding tubes longer... I feel like I killed her... Even though every doctor and nuerologist said it was for the best because she would be in a vegitative state... I know she wouldnt have wanted to live her life that way. I find myself thinking life is pointless for me now, I dread on what i could have done, said, etc differently, and find excuses to blame myself for almost everything. I have not been to a doctor yet. I feel like nothing really matters any more to me. I used to be the head varsity cheerleader, always out and having fun...and now it seems like when Im out, I'm jealous of everyone and I feel like my life can never be like theirs again, but when Im alone its like im staring into a mirror and I no longer know the person staring back. I want to find ways to cope with everything. But, i dont know how. I find myself thinking sucicidally daily, never completely serious, I don't have the balls to do that. But, if I did it would have been done by now. I hate myself for everything thats happened, and I feel like no one wants to talk to me about it. I hate the life I live. I get nurvous now, that never happened before. Like, if i hear people laughing I automatically assume its about me. I get heart palpatations when nothing seems to cause it. I get lumps in my throat. I feel the constant need for reassurance. I hate that I always think of the worst possible situations. If an ambulance passes me, i automatically pick up the phone to call my brother and make sure he's okay. I hate that everything I do I can never feel calm about. I feel constantly shaken up. I can't sleep at night, and I hate being by myself because it gives me too much time to think. More often than not I take nyquil to sleep and stop thinking . I hate what my life has become . I envy who I used to be before this all happened. Whats wrong with me...?

I don't know what to do anymore help please i dont know just something?

You need long term counselling. I am not sure a school counsellor will be of any help. Your are having to deal with a huge trauma and you need someone who specialises in trauma and attachment issues. Psychodynamic therapy could help you with this but it is long term. It will take time but it will help you. Dont go to the psychiatrist and dont do any CBT or other short therapies, they will not be able to deal with the early trauma you have suffered. When our attachment to our mother/father or other important people was not good enough it sets the blueprint for other relationships. Basically we see the world through a 'trauma lense' We fear people and our environment. It sounds like you have had a difficult start in life and that will take time to heal. If you live in the UK take a look here a href="http://www.psychoanalytic-council.org/main/" rel="nofollow"http://www.psychoanalytic-council.org/ma…/a for a counsellor or take a look at the BACP website for a psychodynamic counsellor.

What happens when you hit a pedestrian at a crosswalk with no insurance?

Lol assuming you in the US you gonna be held fully responsible specially since it is illegal to drive without insurance.